diff: add --ita-[in]visible-in-index

diff: add --ita-[in]visible-in-index

The option --ita-invisible-in-index exposes the "ita_invisible_in_index"
diff flag to outside to allow easier experimentation with this new mode.
The "plan" is to make --ita-invisible-in-index default to keep consistent
behavior with 'status' and 'commit', but a bunch other commands like
'apply', 'merge', 'reset'.... need to be taken into consideration as well.

Signed-off-by: Nguyễn Thái Ngọc Duy <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <redacted>