diff: fix modified lines stats with --stat and --numstat

diff: fix modified lines stats with --stat and --numstat

Only skip diffstats when both oids are valid and identical. This check
was causing both false-positives (files included in diffstats with no
actual changes (0 lines modified) and false-negatives (showing 0 lines
modified in stats when files had actually changed).

Also replaced same_contents with may_differ to avoid confusion.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Guyot-Sionnest <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <redacted>