use xstrdup_or_null to replace ternary conditionals

use xstrdup_or_null to replace ternary conditionals

This replaces "x ? xstrdup(x) : NULL" with xstrdup_or_null(x).
The change is fairly mechanical, with the exception of
resolve_refdup, which can eliminate a temporary variable.

There are still a few hits grepping for "?.*xstrdup", but
these are of slightly different forms and cannot be
converted (e.g., "x ? xstrdup(x->foo) : NULL").

Signed-off-by: Jeff King <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <redacted>