add: change advice config variables used by the add API

add: change advice config variables used by the add API

advice.addNothing config variable is used to control the visibility of
two advice messages in the add library. This config variable is
replaced by two new variables, whose names are more clear and relevant
to the two cases.

Also add the two new variables to the documentation.

Signed-off-by: Heba Waly <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <redacted>