ref_store: take a `msg` parameter when deleting references

ref_store: take a `msg` parameter when deleting references

Just because the files backend can't retain reflogs for deleted
references is no reason that they shouldn't be supported by the
virtual method interface. Also, `delete_ref()` and `refs_delete_ref()`
have already gained `msg` parameters. Now let's add them to
`delete_refs()` and `refs_delete_refs()`.

Signed-off-by: Michael Haggerty <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <redacted>