receive-pack: convert update hooks to new API

receive-pack: convert update hooks to new API

Use the new hook sideband API introduced in the previous commit.

The hook API avoids creating a custom struct child_process and other
internal hook plumbing (e.g. calling find_hook()) and prepares for
the specification of hooks via configs or running parallel hooks.

Execution is still sequential through the current hook.[ch] via the
run_process_parallel_opts.processes=1 arg.

Signed-off-by: Emily Shaffer <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Ævar Arnfjörð Bjarmason <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Adrian Ratiu <redacted>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <redacted>