erlang: update to 28.0.3

erlang: update to 28.0.3

- Takeover maintainership
- Enable parallel build
- Depend from libstdcpp only on JIT-enabled platforms (x86_64 and aarch64)
- Add SCTP support (off by default)
- Remove OTP-internal versions and rely on package versions for sub-packages
- Remove obsolete configure vars
- Move out sasl from erlang package into separate erlang-sasl
- Add more sub-packages
    - erlang-diameter
    - erlang-eldap
    - erlang-ftp
    - erlang-odbc
    - erlang-parsetools
    - erlang-tftp
- Rename erlang-os_mon to erlang-os-mon
- Clean-up descriptions text
- Disable MIPS16 again to fix mips* targets

Signed-off-by: Aleksey Vasilenko <redacted>